my life. SUCKS. thanks to a certain mum, who can't seem to let me choose my own friends. who can't seem to trust my judgement on people i mix with. WTH. YOU DON'T SEE ME HANGING OUT WITH SLUTS OR SOME GANGSTA KID.
so i would like to dedicate this post, to my mum. please let me have a LITTTLE freedom? :)
you do know that your mum has gone through every stage ur going through and more likely than not, what she said has its reasons behind it. we as kids, sometimes just have to trust our parents instinct! :) love u heaps!
ReplyDeletei know i know. but it's hard. :\ i have no freedom. AT ALL.
ReplyDeleteyou should be grateful because in the end, you'd still feel loved. and, freedom is something you have to earn, same goes for trust. when your parents deem you to be independent enough, they will let you do what you wana do (of course, it has to be the right choices in life) because they know you are wise enough to make your own decisions in life. like my mum, i can't recall any event in which she did not let me go out (even if she's away traveling) because i'd always tell her where i'm going, with whom and what time i'll most likely be back AUTOMATICALLY even when she's not home. in the long run, she let me go out with my friends anytime, anyday. on top of that, she also has all my close friends' phone number. so its a process qi, you're still young. i only started going out with friends when i was in form 3, and thats only because the guys (my friends whom my mum knows) would come and pick us (me and my friend) and we'll go to the movies or supper. it's the same theory like you say if i were to bring you out, your mum would allow. it's a trust system you have to build.
ReplyDeleteand the next time you think you have no freedom at all, think again. think about the kids that has no parents and how they'd wish they had one there to help support them when they make the wrong choices in life. =)